Tuesday, August 11, 2009

Refreshment

Well, after that stressful week, God graciously provided me with a mini vacation. Tim needed to make a trip to the town of Santa Barbara to take Bibles and books to a vendor there, so we decided to make a family day out of the occasion. The three oldest children were delighted to ride on the back of the pickup truck for the hour-long drive into the mountains. I have long wanted to see the town of Santa Barbara which I have heard much about, and I was not disappointed. It is an old colonial style town; its narrow streets are shared by both modern automobiles and mountain men in their best sombreros. I had hoped to find a market where the woven hats and baskets are sold, but we had no such luck. Since shopping was not considered of general interest by the rest of the family, we chose to enjoy the drive and the glorious views instead.
I never cease to be impressed with the Hondurans' abilities to cultivate the steepest hillsides!


A typical rainy season afternoon cloud, preparing to divulge its contents onto the expectant earth...

We stopped for lunch at a place that boasted a tree house unlike any I have ever seen. I was much too lazy to climb those many steps to the top deck, but my boys were highly impressed!

What impressed me was this fountain. I love the clay vessels and natural rock, but I can think of so many ways to improve it... with tropical foliage, a couple orchids, delicate ferns, and a few of my hubby's colorful fish!

A day away from the house does wonders for a Mom's perspective, and I came home refreshed and altogether thankful to hop back into my fishbowl! :)

Tuesday, August 4, 2009

One of Those Weeks

There are times, in spite of my proclamation in the last sentence of my previous post, that the tame and comfortable looks mighty appealing. Last week was one of those times... and here are a few snapshots.

The children come into the house to inform me that there’s someone at the gate asking for me. As I tramp out to meet her, she bursts into exclamations of “Hello, Sister Naomi!!! How are you doing?” I find myself stiffening involuntarily… I have never talked to this woman before and here she is greeting me like an old friend. This can mean only one thing-she is here to ask something of me. I recognize her as a lady who came to church recently and made a lengthy speech in front of the congregation about her relationship with God and her son who has sores on his head and could we please pardon the bother and help her out??? Sure enough, at my gate she repeats the story of her son’s problem and explained that he had an appointment at the hospital “this very afternoon” and would I please pardon the bother and lend her 200 lempiras (about ten dollars) and she will most certainly pay them back by Saturday… Her well-fed and well-dressed figure causes me some suspicion, but I refer her to Tim, who lends her the money and she goes on her way. About an hour later my phone rings and it is Edna calling. A sigh escapes her voice as she asks if I remember that lady who was in church recently and asked for help for her son who has sores on his head??? As a matter of fact, I do remember her. Edna wants to know if we know her well and whether we believe her needs are genuine? Because she is now at Edna’s gate with a new story… It seems her mother fell and injured her head and is in the hospital possibly needing surgery and could Edna please [pardon the bother] and give her 500 lempiras???… Relating to a dependent culture and trying to distinguish the legitimate needs from the fake is one of the single most exhausting aspects of mission life… Oh for the spirit of Peter! (Acts 5)

We are just fixing to serve lunch when I notice a commotion at the gate and realize we have guests. I recognize the woman as someone we had contact with years ago when one of our youth teams built her a house. There is no doubt she is poor, but the greater difficulty in relating to her is the evidences of her immoral life in her speech, dress, and behavior. I watch from the window as Tim obviously tries to keep her from entering the house. Meanwhile, her small daughter barges in and asks for a drink of water. We hand her a cup, and then she runs to the kitchen and begs for food from the girls who are finishing up meal preparations. I tell her rather sternly that I will share food with her, but she must NOT go into the kitchen and beg. At this she runs outdoors and tells her mother that I invited them to come in to eat, and as soon as Tim turns his back, both mother and daughter burst in the door. More disturbing than her artificial warmth and incessant chatter is the vexation I feel in my own spirit. When the question is asked whether she does not get on my nerves, I admit that indeed she does… But what if I am the only “Jesus” she ever sees? How am I representing Him???

It is naptime, and Derek is nowhere to be found. I wander outside, calling his name, when I spy him trudging up the hill from the chicken house. “I got a bunch of eggs!” he announces cheerfully, showing me the brown treasures gently cradled in his shirttail. “Where did you find them?” I ask a little suspiciously. “Down there by the old aquaponics,” he explains, gesturing toward the abandoned barrels where we had begun our experiments. I sigh, “Oh Derek, I’m afraid those eggs aren’t good, because Josh said a hen has been setting on them for a long time… Here, just lay them in the flower bed and then we’ll deal with them later.” Derek squats down and carefully places the eggs, one by one, into the soft earth. As he places the last egg on the pile, there is a sudden noise like a gunshot and poor Derek is dripping with slimy rotten egg. I stare in disbelief as he turns and marches away without a word. Six seconds later he suddenly erupts into wails of terror while I try my best to not laugh out loud. “It’s just like Templeton’s egg in Charlotte’s Web!” I exclaim enthusiastically, but he is not to be distracted that easily. After a shower and some severe scrubbing, he meekly crawls into the safety of his bed.

Pineapple Day…. I wanted around eighty pineapples to can, and somehow ended up with 120 instead. Thanks to the energetic young people around here- Bertha and her two sisters who were visiting, and Dave (our helper for six months)- they were all cut up and in jars by lunchtime. One hundred and seventeen quarts!!! The processing, however, seemed endless, what with a small stove which had only very small burners, and jars that kept breaking. (What causes jars to break at the bottom when the water is only heating, not near boiling yet??? No, they were not mayonnaise jars; yes, they were setting on a rack; no, we did not turn the rings too tight, but we did cool the water before submerging jars…???) We celebrated by going out to eat fish, which was another experience in itself. We went to our favorite restaurant about two miles away, only to discover they were closed. So we drove a few more miles to a bigger and more expensive place, and just as we had all decided what to order we found out they were out of fish! We ended up driving an additional ten miles to a place at the edge of the lake where we did in fact eat fish while being eaten by mosquitoes.

My kitchen counter is spread with all the ingredients for a haystack supper… lettuce, chili bean mixture, fried rice, chopped tomatoes, crushed tortilla chips… I pause to wonder whether there is enough to feed a dozen people, and secretly hope the bread will serve as a “filler” for hungry boys. We are having meetings this weekend and the first service starts in less than an hour, but my family and guests are still scattered. I announce that supper is ready when my eye catches sight of another vehicle at the gate... Before my mind can wrap itself around the turn of events, we are blessed with six more guests for supper! There is no time to fret about the possibility of running out of food, and in a matter of minutes appreciative guests are bent over their heaping plates. Half an hour later when everyone has drifted away from the kitchen, I stare incredulously at the leftovers… Every single dish still has food in it, and I am simply convinced that God has once again multiplied my loaves and fishes!!!


My life is a lot of things right now, but dull is not one of them.

Monday, July 6, 2009

Thirteen Years

July sixth is always a big deal at our house. I cannot imagine worrying that Tim would ever forget our anniversary; I would be more likely to forget than he would! Whenever feasible, we have taken a day or two off to spend time by ourselves. Our celebrations have ranged from the Poconos Mountains to a cabin in West Virginia; from a family camp out at Shawnee Park to a return trip to our honeymoon cabin in Stowe, Vermont. This year we really, really wanted to go to the Bay Islands, one beautiful part of Honduras that we have never visited. But we are at that awkward stage in life where our children are too many to just dump on someone else for a few days, and too young to leave by themselves! With the political situation being unstable as it is, we're thankful we did not have any travel plans this week; I especially don't care to venture far out of my comfort zone. But a trip to San Pedro was necessary today; our Troyer relatives flew in late last night and we weren't able to go pick them up them because of a curfew. (They found a friend in the city who risked spending a night in jail and talked his way through several police checkpoints in order to rescue them from spending the night in the airport!) ...So this morning Tim and I left our (many) children with our great friend Bertha and went to the city by ourselves. And our anniversary was celebrated by going to the Immigration office, picking up our Troyer cousins and their mounds of luggage, lingering long over baleadas at "Baleadas Express", enjoying a slice of !CHEESECAKE! (compliments of Uncle Junior) and buying two new bicycles for a couple fast approaching middle age and in need of some fun exercise! It was a truly beautiful day ~filled with "simple" pleasures~ and tonight I am thanking God for every moment Tim and I have shared together! Mission life has a way of testing a marriage and exposing all sorts of strange and uncomfortable things about your relationship that you never knew were there... It seems to take so much more commitment and effort to maintain complete oneness, and sometimes it simply feels like war- not with each other, thank God!- but against the enemy who seems to have an intense hatred for godly homes here in this country. But those concentrated efforts of preserving our marriage bring some marvelous rewards! It is the storms of life that deepen and strengthen our love, and I am so grateful that God's choice for us has far surpassed the tame and comfortable existence of our little house in King!

Friday, July 3, 2009

Words of Affirmation

Mama: "Derek, how about I tell you a story about when I was a little girl... Did you know I was a little girl once?"

Derek, surprised: "No."

Mama: "Well, what did you think I was???"

Derek, carelessly: "A piece of dirt!"

Thursday, June 11, 2009

A Girl and Her Car

It was the typical morning confusion at our house- breakfast and devotions were over and I was overseeing chores and trying to get the older children into gear. Derek and Mandie, who need no prompting to get in gear, headed outdoors as usual and pulled out their riding toys. I heard the cycle leave and knew Tim and Derek were going to the Roses to check on their new fish tanks. Some five minutes or more elapsed when we heard a strange call from the gate. "He-e-e-y!" This is not a typical Honduran greeting, so I ignored it at first. After all, it was probably someone who wanted Tim, and he wasn't home. The caller continued persistently so I finally went to the front door and peered toward the gate. A man on a bicycle waved frantically at me. Pointing up the road, he shouted, "La niƱa! Un carro le va a matar!" ("The child! A car will kill her!") I was down the steps and at the gate in a flash. A glance up the road confirmed his words, for there in the middle of the road went my independant little girl on her green car, heading for El Eden! I took off at a gallop, barely taking time to holler "Muchisimas gracias" to the hero. As I sprinted toward her, she glanced over her shoulder with a huge satisfied grin and then resumed her journey uphill. At first she looked like a mere speck on the far horizon, but in reality she had gone as far as the neighbor's gate, which is a good distance away, considering that there is a large orchard between our house and theirs. I scooped her up and held her close, much too shaken even to scold. She chattered happily as I carried her and the car back home and then sank weakly into the nearest chair. How many people passed her during that time is a question that cannot be answered, but I do know at least one vehicle went by just as I had arrived at the door. The children of course wondered whether she would have gone to Jeremiah's house or to the church, had she reached El Eden. I just shuddered and declared we certainly would have missed her before she would have gotten that far! Needless to say, everyone is now on high alert that the gate must always be LATCHED, not merely closed.


How could a mother not believe in angels?

Monday, June 8, 2009

Dinner Table Conversation

Derek: "There ARE deer in Honduras! I saw one in the woods by the banana field!"

(Expressions of unbelief from siblings)

Derek: "Well, I saw brown, and I saw antlers- and that means deer!"

(Giggles and more protests from siblings)

Derek: (chuckles) "Ok, maybe it was just a fake deer, because it just stood there for a lo-o-o-ng time!"

Friday, June 5, 2009

The Man

I love celebrating my man! Not only is he God's gift to me, but he is God's love to me in so many ways. While I don't write my love letters to him on our blog, I think he deserves some public recognition on his birthday!


This little girl adores her Daddy and loves nothing better than spending time with him outdoors.


Here Tim gets to enjoy the fruit of his aquaponic labors with our first fish fry! We fixed it the traditional Honduran way- the fish fried whole with the head on, served with sliced fried green bananas and cabbage salad. Yum!


There are so many answered prayers in this picture... I love it!


Richly blessed... In love... Best Friends... Thanking God for each other... Amen.